My family and I went out for our evening exercise routine this evening. Our three-year-old isn’t feeling the best right now, so he spent most of his time in the stroller, next to his 6-month-old brother. He’s been feeling under the weather the last couple of days, so he knew he wasn’t going to get his usual time to run and chase his big sister. Instead, there he sat, in the stroller, hugging his toy fire-engine which he had insisted on bringing on our walk. He negotiated “his turn” on the way home. He planned to get out of the stroller and push his toy fire engine down the hill. So cute!

You may think that this was just a trivial event, but it wasn’t. It was an evening of learning – deep learning. You see, he kept pushing his fire engine too fast, on an angle, and the fire engine just kept toppling over onto its side and crashing into things. My little guy was getting a little frustrated.
His big sister came to the rescue. Well, not really, she wanted “her turn”. But, he watched his older, more experienced sister very carefully (she’s 6-years-old – and he looked at her as being much older and wiser). She lined up his fire engine carefully in the middle of the sidewalk. When she pushed it down the hill, she gave it just a smooth, gentle push. And, wow, did that fire engine ever race down that hill. It remained on all four wheels, never toppled and raced 4 times farther than my son was able to make it go.
My son watched in awe!
When it was his turn, he copied what his sister had done and was rewarded with his fire engine travelling far and staying on all four wheels. He was so proud of himself!
I stood there, watching them both intently. As I watched, I made a strong connection with what they were doing with what we do as leaders in schools. Or, rather, what we *should* do as leaders in schools.Continue reading “Go Slow to Go Far”


