One Year Ago Today

I am sharing this in an effort to help others, to be a voice when others may be struggling to find their words.  If you, or someone you know, think that you may need the support of a Transition House, give them a call. Reach out. Ask for help.

4791822776_ff00bf47c6

February 12, 2017

One year ago today.

It was one year ago tonight that my three young children and I entered the Libra House Transition House through Ishtar Transition Housing Society. It was one year ago we began to meet some of the most caring, thoughtful, generous women I’ve ever met in my entire life.

One year ago today, I gained enough courage to move forward.

One year ago today, I asked for help.

One year ago today, I accepted support from others.

One year ago today, I gained the strength of many.

One year ago today, my healing journey began.

One year ago today, I started to value myself.

One year ago today, I started listening to myself.

One year ago today, I started to trust in myself again.

One year ago today, I started understanding that my normal, wasn’t really “normal”.

Continue reading

Posted in Connections / Relationships, kindness, Lessons Learned, Reflection | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

You Matter

Yes, you matter.

For the past few years, there has been a prominent movement toward making sure people (particularly kids) know that they matter. It is a wonderful, very important message that I feel like people can’t hear enough. You can read more about the You Matter Manifesto through Angela Maiers’ site. You can also find a wide range of inspiring ideas and posts on Angela’s Twitter stream. Check it out! You can even get a free copy of Angela Maiers’ new book: Genius Matters which has wonderful stories and helpful lessons to continue to spread this movement.

Here is a video by Angela Maiers about the words, You Matter:

I agree that it is our responsibility as parents, as educators, as leaders, and as people to help everyone around us understand that they each hold special gifts, talents, and abilities. I agree that too often our children are taught to conform and not to truly express who they are as individuals. It is our responsibility to honour them and help them understand their strengths and then build on these strengths. Continue reading

Posted in care, Connections / Relationships, kindness, Learning, Lessons Learned, Uncategorized, YouMatter | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Be Kind to Yourself

It was Friday morning and my classroom was empty. The students had just left with the teacher who helps them exchange their library books for the week. A few minutes after 5448660307_14ccbc3b37my students in Grade 1 and 2 left the class, in walked in another student. He was a few minutes late and had his usual huge smile on his face. He’s 6 years old and in Grade 1. He’s absolutely adorable and has a huge heart. His smile is infectious and always lights up my day. So, with the two of us alone in our class, I said, “Good morning, Joe! Your parents must feel so fortunate to have such an amazing son who is always so happy!” (Joe is not his real name.) Joe’s smile became even bigger! And, then, away he went to the library with his book to be exchanged in his hand.

After school, I happened to be talking with Joe’s mom. She was dropping off some school notices which she felt she was late in returning to school. She was berating herself a little bit, saying that she was having a hard time getting things together. As a mom of 3, it is not easy to keep on top of all the things we need to do as moms. I felt for her and just simply said that it was okay and that it was important that she just be kind to herself. I went on to say that we are all just doing our best and that she is doing a wonderful job.

Continue reading

Posted in care, Connections / Relationships, kindness, Lessons Learned, Reflection, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Where are the Women Keynote Speakers?

Where are the Women Keynote Speakers?

This post was collaboratively written by:

Jessica Johnson
Melissa Emler
Heidi Hutchison
Iram Khan
Kaye Henrickson              
Tia Henriksen                             

Image by PIxabay

Image by PIxabay

In a recent discussion in our Women in Leadership oxer group, we came to the realization that opportunities for us to hear female education leaders speak as keynote presenters at conferences are a rare find. We can list numerous outstanding male keynote speakers we have heard at conferences and would be happy to listen to again:

  • Todd Whitaker
  • Eric Sheninger
  • Peter DeWitt
  • Andy Hargreaves
  • Michael Fullan
  • Joe Sanfellippo
  • Tony Sinanis
  • Jimmy Casas
  • Jeff Zeoul
  • Daniel Pink
  • Sir Ken Robinson
  • Kevin Honeycutt
  • Baruti Kafele
  • Josh Stumpenhorst
  • George Couros
  • Dean Shareski

The list could go on and on… Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

Future Members of Society

As I wrote about recently, I had the pleasure of participating in the BCPVPA Short Course for administrators last week. We had many inspiring speakers, great connections with administrators from around the province and heart-felt conversations about kids and the future.

photo (5)On Friday, we had the pleasure of learning from Judy Halbert and Linda Kaser. I always enjoy listening to them and being pushed to think as a result of their powerful questions. Much of their work over the years is associated with the Network of Inquiry and Innovation (previously known as the Network of Performance-Based Schools). They have written a wonderful book, Spirals of Inquiry, which is an easy read, full of local success stories and inspiration (along with a bit of research with the why behind inquiry).  They have also been involved with the Aboriginal Enhancement School Network and Changing Results for Young Readers.  To say that these two leaders in education have had a huge impact in learning around the province and the world, would be an understatement!

While I could go on for pages and pages about all the wonderful messages Judy and Linda presented us on Friday, I would like to focus on a question they asked us to explore briefly with an unknown colleague in the room. I talked with another principal in the room about the question, “What kind of society do we want?”  This is such an important question that must guide the work that we do in our schools each day. This question should be the focus on our minds every single day and should be the focus of the mission and vision of our schools, our school districts, and province. I am fortunate to be inspired by a district that has this focus on everything they do, as seen in our mission and vision and a video that was created for our district: Continue reading

Posted in change, Connections / Relationships, Instructional Leadership, Leading the Learning, Learning, Professional Development, Reflection, Technology | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Things I Know For Sure

This past week, 120+ new administrators and 20+ facilitators gathered at UBC for connection, inspiration, and reflection. We all participated in the BCPVPA Short Course: Lenses of Leadership for new Administrators that has been happening at the beginning of July for the past 38 years (you can check out the hashtag #bcpvpa for some inspiration). I wasn’t sure what to expect, but had heard good things about the course.

I’d like to take a few blog posts to talk about some of the things we learned and reflected on through out the week. These reflections will continue to happen, of course, but these posts will be a way for me to continue the reflections and share the week we had with others who may not have been as fortunate to be able to attend.

On the last day, we were inspired by recently retired principal, Maeve Buckley. Her talk was entitled, The Top 10 Things I Know For Sure: In Leadership and Life. Her list included:

1. It’s All About Relationships (and trust underlies that)

2. Your Staff is Your Classroom (ensure you are inclusive and your instruction is differentiated)

3. The No. 1 Stressor is Change

4. Strengthen Your Conflict Muscle

5. Every Complaint Has a Thread of Truth

6. When Tension Arises, Lean in

7. It’s Better to Ask Curious Questions

8. The Key to Success … is Personal

9. Stay Connected

10. Celebrate Everything

Continue reading

Posted in Collaboration, Connections / Relationships, Family, Instructional Leadership, Leading the Learning, Learning, Professional Development, Reflection | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Power of Educators

Screen Shot 2012-12-29 at 10.31.30 PMSometimes, I think we as individual educators do not realize the ultimate power we have over what we do. Oftentimes, I think that we wait for others to lead us and to show us what is out there. Don’t get me wrong, learning from others is essential. Collaboration in today’s world is imperative. What we should avoid is sitting back and waiting for something to happen. Sitting back and waiting for things to change. Sitting back and waiting for someone to teach us. That’s not how things work today when we have everything and everyone at the tip of our fingers. Knowledge is everywhere. Information is everywhere. Learning is everywhere. It is important for us to find and follow our passions and get out and learn. We are in charge of our learning. Gone are the days of passive professional development.

Inspiring people like Karen Lirenman (Celebrating our Youngest Learners), Gallit Zvi (Genius Hour), Diana Williams (Kiva), Iram Khan (Minecraft and Maker Space), Robyn Thiessen (Global Education) and many, many others have been models in what it means to take charge of their learning. They were introduced to things, got involved, made connections, learned deeply, and then just let these passions drive them. They allowed these passions do drive their teaching and their student’s learning. No one told them they had to. No one told them what they would get out of it, they just did it. They took ownership over their own learning and the, to a certain point, the curriculum and magic has happened.

photo (5)These educators listed above were “regular” teachers or administrators a short 5 years ago. They were unconnected and here they are now, 5 short years later, each speaking to 1000’s at the world-wide tech conference, ISTE! They, and many others, aren’t there because they were asked to do a workshop. They are not there because they were presenting on something in the curriculum. They are there because they found something they are passionate about and started exploring this deeply. This type of dedication and commitment is admirable – for them and their students. This is the passion that makes a real difference in the lives of kids! Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment

A New Role, a New District, and New Connections

It is Spring Break and after my first 2 1/2 months of being a principal, I have found time to do some important 3-R’s – rest, rejuvenate, and reflect. Heading into the final stretch of a school year, all these are imperative to continue on and end the year strong. photo (5)On January 1st, I became a principal in a new district.  I wasn’t quite sure what to expect, but with some great supporters nudging me along, I took the leap. While it hasn’t been easy (which I didn’t expect it to be), it has been good. It has felt good to be one of the lead learners in a school of dedicated child-centred professionals. It has felt good to be in a supportive district environment where risk-taking is valued and encouraged (something my previous district was very good at doing as well). It has felt good to be provided with this opportunity to learn about, from, and with a wonderful learning community both within the school and within the district as a whole. The leadership team in this district is quite something. The ongoing professional conversations around learning and students has been second to none. Continue reading

Posted in Collaboration, Connections / Relationships, Leading the Learning, Reflection | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

My Word for 2015

5720531093_21985d26c2_b

Many educators have been reflecting on 2014 and making plans for 2015. In doing so, many have chosen one (or more) word to be their focus for this year. This word reflects what they feel is most important in their own growth – both personally and professionally – for 2015.

When I reflect on 2014 and look ahead at the new year, one word keeps coming to mind as the most important word for me – both personally and professionally.

Relationships.

The relationships I focus on will be the key to my fulfillment in all aspects of my life for this year ahead.  These relationship will help ground me and help move me forward at the same time. Continue reading

Posted in Leading the Learning, Professional Development, Reflection | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

A Bit of Me

A Bit of a Goodbye

Screen Shot 2014-12-26 at 9.03.39 PMAfter 20 years in my current district, it is time to say goodbye. It’s not really a goodbye though. Even though we will not be seeing one other at district meetings, we will continue to visit, exchange emails, vox each other, talk on Facebook, and inspire each other on Twitter.  We will continue to seek advice and provide support and guidance. Yes, we will be in different districts so there will be different district policies and different ways-of-doing-things, however, we will continue to support one another in our roles as teachers and administrators.

Before I say goodbye, I would like to share a bit about my journey in Surrey Schools.

A Bit of My History in Surrey Schools

4803542425_21e7355746During the past 20 years, I had the opportunity to teach Grade K-12 and work as an elementary school vice-principal. For the first couple of years teaching (starting in 1995), I worked as a Teacher-On-Call until I received my first long-term assignment teaching Grade 1. I worked for approximately 10 years with Kindergarten, Grade 1, and Grade 2 students. Then, after 10 years of teaching, I had my first child. Continue reading

Posted in Connections / Relationships, Learning, Management, Professional Development, Reflection, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments